Helping People Who Can’t Be Helped
Have a friend who is always complaining about something but can never seem to make any positive changes? We’ve all been in positions with the kind of person, whether it be a friend or co-worker, that needs help but won’t let anything get through.
Alvin Soon knows how you feel and gives a few pointers on how to single out these people and step them in the right direction of solutions. Turn Self-Sabotage into Self-Empowerment and fall in love with your strengths.
When you hear someone talk endlessly about their problems, especially in dramatic and sometimes even boastful ways; watch out! They may say they want to change, but they’re still enjoying the secondary gain they get from having this problem.
Are You Fighting Yourself? - [LifeCoachesBlog]


Comments
Alvin says on February 9th, 2007 at 2:11 pm
Hey Craig,
Wow! Thanks for the link!
We’ve all been in that position before, even with the most intimate person in our lives…ourselves. I hope Lifehack.org’s readers find it of value in getting out of that stuck state into a better one.