Alpha males and their rituals of dominance
Why office politics are everywhere, yet accomplish so little of value
Two years ago, I went to Colorado to watch the Prairie Chickens and Sage Grouse doing their spring dances. The males strut around, puff out their chests, and try to intimidate other males who come near them. Sometimes they start up a skirmish, running at one another and trying to look as fearsome as possible. Younger, junior males hang around the edges of the dancing area, practicing on one another. In their excitement, they sometimes try to get in on the serious action, only to get their butts kicked by the alpha males.
You can see virtually the same behavior in just about any organization. Lots of ritualized aggressive behavior; the junior people getting pushed to the edges and occasionally put firmly in their place; all the paraphernalia of dominance and the creation of a pecking order. Mostly bluff and posturing, with an occasional serious fight thrown in. Amongst the grouse and Prairie Chickens, access to females is controlled by male posturing for dominance. In organizations, it’s more usually access to budgets, influence, and power.
Power is a natural part of every hierarchy, animal, bird, or human. And where there is power, and the benefits that flow from exercising power, there will be people trying to find ways to get more of it and deny access to rivals. If you’re a male grouse, you have to dance if you want to breed. No dance, no access to females. Among business executives—real or wannabe—you usually have to play the political game if you want to get ahead. People act the way they do because they’re human animals with the same tendencies to playing dominance games as grouse or Prairie Chickens.
The prizes are big ones: not just money, prestige, and power, but even better health and longer life. Studies have shown that having lower status can shorten your life. A study in the 1970s, which looked at the health and working life of thousands of British civil servants, found that the lower a person’s “grade” the more likely they were to die young, especially of coronary artery disease.
Why does this process resist all attempts to dislodge it? The young grouse I watched kept trying to get into the serious action and being driven out. Their only “fault” was being young. But they hang in there. In time, they’ll be at the center of things. And then? They’ll kick the butts of the newcomers of their time. Creating and maintaining a pecking order is just about universal amongst social creatures. Since that includes mankind, I doubt we’ll see an end to it any time soon. If you want to get to the top, as things are today, you have to compete. If you stand aside, you may feel morally superior, but you probably won’t become a top executive. That’s a problem for many women and minorities. They don’t want to play the stereotypically white-male-dominated game of office politics. It feels demeaning and distasteful, especially since they start with the handicap of the “wrong” skin color or gender. Traditional office politics and diversity simply don’t mix.
Politics, bullying, and succession to top jobs
People who are bullied often become bullies themselves. Those who scratch and claw their way to the top, using every political dirty trick, are very often the ones who suffered most at junior levels from bosses who kept smacking them down. Monsters in the executive suite create a whole cadre of “apprentice monsters” just waiting to take their place and dish out the same cruelty that they suffered. It’s a vicious cycle that can’t stop until those already in power—not those on the way up—decide to bring it to an end.
Of course, none of this politicking and strutting your stuff contributes in any way to the success of the business itself. It’s purely personal, despite the ritual bleating that competition sorts out the weak from the strong and the able from the incompetent. It might, if you were dealing purely with physical fitness, as the grouse are, but it has no use in trying to help the most able, the most creative, or the wisest to reach position where their abilities, creativity, and wise judgments can be used. In the typical free-for-all of office politics, advancement goes to the pushiest, most egotistical, and least scrupulous people: hardly the ideal qualities you would choose for future top executives.
Understanding why office politics sucks
In this atmosphere of posturing alpha males, the rules of the game determine outcomes, not what is best for the business, the shareholders, or the community at large:
- Patronage is currency. CEOs and other senior executives have enormous power of patronage. It’s pretty much the strongest power they have. The ability to hand out rewards (stock options, better terms and contracts, more influence, public recognition, or status) binds people to the person who gives them. Of course, handing out rewards buys you still more patronage, so don’t expect them to go to those who deserve them most. Many of today’s reward systems are warped and suspect because they are used primarily for political advancement, not to encourage merit or reward achievement.
- Favors are to be traded. Much of the interaction in organizations is based on people trading favors. One way top people establish themselves is by getting their budgets approved. When yours comes through untouched, you’re perceived as a winner. When your budget is chopped, you become a loser, not only in the eyes of your colleagues, but also to your subordinates. This can destroy much of your credibility. Ambitious people will trade almost anything for power and advancement, including their integrity.
- Don’t break ranks. What the top team says goes. The principle of collective responsibility binds everyone to supporting decisions publicly, even if they disagreed vehemently in private. A front of total unity must be presented to the outside world. If you embarrass those above you, they’ll make sure that you stay where you are. This works against “whistle blowers” and any kind of public revelation of private wrongdoing. It’s hard to create pressure for change when everyone appears so satisfied with the status quo; and even harder to find evidence of poor practices through a self-imposed wall of silence. It makes a mockery of all the fine words about openness and transparency.
- Surprises are bad. The last thing those at the top want is to be surprised, whether the unexpected is good or bad. It suggests that they don’t know what’s going on (which happens to be true, but they don’t want it to be so plain to everyone). This contributes more than almost anything else to the sluggishness and inertia of many organizations. Change means surprises. It might reveal that top people are not as able as their carefully-crafted images suggest.
- Do unto others what others did unto you. What keeps the whole process going, making sure when you get to the top that you pour as much of the brown stuff as possible on those below you—just like all too many of today’s bosses— is the mistaken belief that it has to be this way. Why? Grouse do it, chimps do it, but they also mate in public and I don’t see many powerful people suggesting that is the natural way of things for all right-thinking people.
Office politics may be extremely common—probably universal at the present time—but some form of slavery was also universal for many centuries. Did that make it right? The correct question to ask is whether the time, energy, and effort expended on playing politics in the workplace contributes anything of worth to the organization or society. I can’t see anything, only a great deal of wasted time, bruised people, and suppression of ability. Maybe the time has come to begin to call a halt.
Related posts:
- Workplace Karma
- The unseen toxic waste from organizations: battered people and stunted lives
- Office politics is Not Optional: Five Tips for Doing it Better
- Politics Come With the Office
- Productivity with Humanity
- Ethical Office Politics
- How to Kill Creativity
Adrian Savage is a writer, an Englishman, and a retired business executive, in that order. He lives in Tucson, Arizona. You can read his other articles at Slow Leadership, the site for everyone who wants to build a civilized place to work and bring back the taste, zest and satisfaction to leadership and life. His latest book, Slow Leadership: Civilizing The Organization
, is now available at all good bookstores.



Comments
Sikosis says on February 19th, 2007 at 8:18 pm
So, the moral is that those at the bottom can’t do anything and those #$#%# at the top will keep doing the same thing they’ve continued to do for the rest of our years.
A rather bleak reality.
Adrian says on February 19th, 2007 at 9:27 pm
I’m not sure that I did say that, Sikosis. Animals and birds don’t have much choice about instinctive behaviors. Mankind can choose not to follow the same path, as I stressed at the end of my post.
Ramon Greenwood says on February 21st, 2007 at 5:05 pm
The young woman’s face was a picture of unhappiness and worry, totally out of keeping with the 29th birthday she had just passed, as she described her predicament and asked for my advice.
“My job is driving me crazy. I am frustrated because I am not getting ahead,” she said. “I want desperately to make a change, but I just don’t know what to do about it.”
Her story was one I hear often from people at all levels of their careers. Henry David Thoreau could have had someone like her in mind when he wrote in “Walden” in 1854 that “The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.”
I began our discussion with the root question: “What do you want to be doing five years from now?”
“That’s the problem; I don’t know,” she answered. “There are so many things I would like to do, it’s hard to make a decision,” she said. “One day it’s this, the next day it is something else. In the meantime, I feel like time is passing me by.”
“Nonsense, it is never too late to take charge of where your life is going,” I responded. “But you cannot get out of this hole you are in until you make a decision on what you want to do. That first step may be the hardest one to take. You have a lot of options, but you are afraid to choose one because you think you may pick the wrong goals and end up in another trap. You are frightened by the thought of making a commitment.
“And you don’t really believe at this point you can plan your life for success. Other people do. Why can’t you?”
I went on to explain that if she made a mistake she could always change her mind and set other goals. It is better to pick a target and work toward it – even if it has to be changed – than to continue to drift pillow to post, slipping deeper and deeper into frustration and depression. Long-range goals are basic to surviving and triumphing over short-range failures that are bound to happen.
Four Action Steps To Get On Track
We went on to discuss some specific planning steps–a road map– she should undertake to get her career on track.
First, I explained, she should put in writing her goals for the next three to five years. These goals should spell out what she wanted to be doing in her work; where she wanted to live; what lifestyle she wanted; how much money she wanted to be making.
Second, I advised her to make a written list of her assets that could be applied to her campaign to realize her goals: her education, her talents and skills, her experiences, her likes and dislikes.
Third, I explained she would need to look at those two lists, side by side. This exercise would identify the gap between where she stood in terms of assets and where she wanted to go. She could see in black and white, graphic terms what she would have to do to close that distance where she was and where she wanted to go.
Fourth, she should lay out a map of action for her career, with specific actions and deadlines, to accomplish her goals.
Inertia Is A Deadly Force
“Your biggest challenge is to break out of the inertia and get moving,” I told her. “It is like you are caught in quick sand. Your frustrations sap your energy, so your attitude goes down the drain. Your present job suffers, which penalizes your opportunities to make a change. You put off taking action until tomorrow, next week and next month. Soon, you will be counting lost time in years, and it will be too late. Sure, that is a grim message, but it is also the way life is.
“The alternative is action, which is a great tonic. It builds on itself. Action will clear your vision, provide strength and confidence.”
Will she get going? Only time will tell. Some who seek advice do take action and achieve their goals. Unfortunately, many don’t.
It all depends on taking that first step of deciding what one wants to do with one’s life.
David Sarnoff, founder of RCA hit the nail on the head when he declared: “Whatever course you have chosen for yourself, it will not be a chore but an adventure if you bring to it a sense of the glory of striving – if your sights are set far above the merely secure and mediocre.”
Ramon Greenwood
ramon@commonsenseatwork.com
Ramon Greenwood says on March 5th, 2007 at 12:04 pm
Winners in the career chase know persistence is a daily necessity if they are to achieve their goals.
One of those big winners, Ted Turner, world-class sailor and founder of the CNN television network, explains his success by saying:
“The secret of my success is that I never quit. Winners never quit, and quitters never win. You might go bankrupt, you might lose everything, but as long as you’re out there still dukin’ back, as long as you haven’t given up, you’re not beaten … a lot of battles in history were won in the eleventh hour. It might have looked like it was over. But the old saying is true: it’s never over ’til it’s over.”
In another age President Calvin Coolidge declared: “Nothing in the world can take the place of perseverance. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.”
Winston Churchill, the great leader of the free world in World War II, explained that he overcame a multitude of defeats in his career by living out his credo of “Never, never, never, never give up.”
Marathon runners provide classic examples of persistence in achieving victory.
“Your body carried you the first 20 miles,” explains my friend Jim Johnson who has run the formidable Pike’s Peak Marathon several times. “Then you hit a point known by runners as ‘the wall.’ Your body has depleted its supply of fuel and you want to quit right there. But if you are going to go the full distance – the 26 miles – your brain has to take over from your body. You run on will power. You get your mind right. You begin to set your goals in smaller bites. Where you started out thinking about your first goal of making it for 20 miles, now you are thinking about going another half-mile, then 100 yards, and finally, a few more steps. You have to gut it out.”
Winners know they will always encounter obstacles as they pursue success, but they accept and deal with this reality by perseverance. They keep on keeping on.
Polybius, a Greek historian, wrote, “Some men give up their designs when they have almost reached the goal; while others, on the contrary, obtain a victory by exerting, at the last moment, more vigorous effort than before.”
Persistence Is Not Pigheadedness
But common sense teaches that it is very important to understand the difference between persistence and pigheadedness.
Persistence is an act of both logic and faith. It means making sure the goal is worth the cost and believing that it is possible to reach it by making the best effort plus a little more.
Pigheadedness, on the other hand, is to ignore reality and to continue to beat one’s head against a brick wall when the reward, even if it is won, is not worth the risk and effort.
Persistence means to set goals and reach them and then set more goals and reach them, recognizing that success is never finally achieved. Winners are always pursuing the next goal.
One would have assumed that Albert Einstein could have found a high plateau on which he could have rested when he developed his theory of relativity. But no. He said of his success, “No amount of experimentation will ever prove me completely right, but one new fact can prove me completely wrong.”
Winners never rest on their laurels.
There’s a ton of wisdom in declaration that “You never conquer a mountain. You stand on the summit a few moments, then the wind blows your footprints away.”
ramon@commonsenseatwork.com