
Make Failure and Frustration Your Friends: A History Lesson
We all experience failure and the subsequent frustration. But how you handle those tormentors makes all the difference in your final outcomes. Oftentimes the peak of frustration comes right before a major breakthrough. That’s if you don’t quit. So don’t quit! Instead use the energy behind that frustration to break through to a new level of strategy. Make failure the friend that brought you to breakthrough’s doorstep! Let frustration be the energy that propels your leap across the chasm!
What follows are several success stories from history where failure was a frequent companion throughout these great people’s lives. Let’s all take some inspiration from their stories.
Abraham Lincoln
Failed in business in 1831. He was defeated for the legislature in 1832. He failed in business again in 1834. Hi beloved, Ann Rutledge, died in 1835. Had a nervous breakdown in ’1836. Was defeated in election in 1838. Defeated for Congress in 1843, 1846, and for a third time in 1848. Lincoln was defeated for Senate in 1855, and defeated for Vice President in 1856. In 1858 he was defeated for Senate. And finally in 1860 he was elected President!
Thomas Edison
Built 1800 prototypes until he created the first light bulb. He was one of America’s most prolific inventors, and he was granted 1,093 patents by the U.S. Patent office, including motion picture cameras, the phonograph, and the storage battery. But his inventions included such failures as a perpetual cigar, furniture made of cement, and a flying machine.
Alexander Graham Bell
Bell invented the telephone, and yet he found it difficult to secure a major backer. In the same year he patented the telephone, 1876, Bell tried to sell exclusive rights to the telephone to Western Union, the leading communications company at the time, for $100,000. William Orton, Western Union’s president, declined the offer, saying: “What use could this company make of an electrical toy?” The rest, as they say, is history.
Frank Herbert
Herbert is the author of Dune, the epic science-fiction tale. The book was rejected by 13 publishers with comments like “too slow,” “confusing and irritating,” “too long,” and “issues too clear-cut and old fashioned.” But Herbert was persistent. Dune went on to win the two highest awards in the science-fiction writing and has sold over 10 million copies.
Albert Einstein
Einstein was a poor elementary school student. He failed his first college entrance exam at Zurich Polytechnic. However he went on to develop one of the greatest theories of Physics, The Theory of Relativity. He won the Nobel Prize in Physics and today his name is synonymous with the word “Genius.” He will go down in history as one of the greatest scientists in the history of the world.
Henry Ford
Ford failed in business and went broke five times before he finally succeeded. In his first car, he forgot to put in a reverse gear. Then in 1957, he created bragged about the “car of the decade,” the Edsel. This car was infamous for its doors that wouldn’t close, a hood that wouldn’t open, paint that peeled, a horn that stuck, and a notoriety that made resale impossible. Despite this, Ford went on to much success.
Col. Harland Sanders
Yes, the Kentucky Fried Chicken Guy. Before his original recipe made it to the big time the Colonel traveled across the country trying to franchise his business. On the 1009th try he got his first sale. Today, KFC is a worldwide success story.
What’s your favorite success story that began with many failures? Where have you succeeded after many failures?
K. Stone is author of Life Learning Today, a blog about daily life improvements. A few of her most popular articles are How to Write a Book in 60 Days or Less, 5 Big Secrets “They” Don’t Want You to Know About Investing, Give Yourself a Raise Today!, and Cool GTD Applications – The Ultimate Resource List.
















Thank you very much for this artical! I have always had problems pushing foward in the face of failure. These stories are not just inspirational, but relevent to me. Thank you again!
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I am a little concerned about the date “1957″ when referring to Henry Ford, as I am sure he was not alive then. Other than that, an inspiring article.
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@Oddes – thank you. Glad you liked it!
@Daniel – thank you for pointing that out. You are correct. Henry Ford lived from 1863-1947. It was his grandson Henry Ford II (1917-1987) who oversaw the introduction of “the Edsel.” Note to self: “Be more careful with fact-checking next time!” Thanks!
Yes, Henry Ford died in 1947. The Edsel fiasco occurred after the Ford family no longer had majority interest in Ford Motor.
Whenever somebody mentions Edison as a failure-to-success story, my first thought is “yeah, at the expense of many more brilliant and visionary inventors.” Take Nikola Tesla for example. The poor guy was constantly being harassed by Edison and his agents, who were known to sabotage his work and attempt to steal his research notes.
Edison’s company used tactics even Microsoft might think twice about. If success means suppressing innovation that’s at least a century ahead of its time (like free wireless power transmission), I think I’d rather be a failure.
FYI the Lincoln references in connection to failure are, to a degree, an urban myth
See http://www.snopes.com/glurge/lincoln.asp
-F
A very nice article. Inspiring!
Err.. Can I also say that Ford “succeeded” because of Lee Iacocca, who was later fired, and who brought Chrysler back on its feet from the brink of closing down? :)
It’s a really inspiring article.
I want to point here that Albert Einstein was not poor in Elementary School. This rumor is due to the differences in Grading systems of Switzerland and Germany.
Links to prove this –
http://www.audiblox2000.com/dyslexia_dyslexic/dyslexia005.htm
http://www.halfvalue.com/wiki.jsp?topic=Albert_Einstein
My own success story (via failure and frusration):
I had the idea to write The Bewitched Book way back in 1987 after I broke my toe, and ending up watching Bewitched again (in reruns). I initially wrote a TV-reunion movie for Bewitched, but Elizabeth Montgomery did not want to resurrect her most famous character and twitch-witch, Samantha Stephens.
So, then I said, “Well – then would you be interested in letting me interview you for a companion book to the original series.” And she ultimately agreed to do the book.
But getting Elizabeth signed on to the project was the easy part. The hard part was finding a publisher.
Today, classic TV is “in”; in 1987, it was “out.” So, no publisher was interested in a book about what they felt was an ancient TV show.
At any rate, I got a book proposal together, found an agent and went on to be rejected by all the major publishers at the time, on the “A,” “B,” “C,” and “D” lists. They all said no – all 75 of them.
Then, one finally said, yes. And my book was purchased. But then my editor was fired – and my book was cancellled.
I sold the book again – to a different publisher – and my editor quit – and the book was cancelled again.
I finally went back to the publisher that originally purchased the book, and sold it a third time (retaining all my advances, by the way, from each sale).
This publisher then went on to print only 15,000 copies and my editor was fired AGAIN – and the book was let go after all 15,000 copies were sold.
A few years later, when Elizabeth Montgomery died at too young an age, I decided to completely rewrite and revise the book. Once more, I attempted to sell it – and no dice: No publisher wanted it anywhere. Again, I experienced numerous rejections – too many to mention.
And then I finally sold this new edition of the book, which I now called Bewitched Forever.
Then, I revised slightly in 2001 – and again, when Sony decided to move forward with the Bewitched feature film.
Not only was my faith in getting the book published steady and strong, despite all the obstacles and rejections through its many forms over its many years, but I can safely say that every good thing that every happened in my career has transpired because original Bewitched Book was published in 1992.
The point is: if you have an idea – whatever it is – that idea is a whisper in your ear from the Universe to pursue it. It is the “thing” that you’re supposed to do. And if you don’t do it, you deny yourself a dream from being fulfilled – and you deny those who may find joy or benefit from that dream.
So, listen to the whispers of your dreams. They are calling to you loud and clear.
Thank you to everyone for their updates and comments. For me each of these individuals serve as an inspirational example of how persistence can lead to success.
The main point is that if you are facing failure and frustration, you can use that energy to propel you forward or pull you down. It’s up to you. Why not use the energy behind frustration to try a new approach and reach your goal!
What is your favorite story of not giving up? Either yours or someone else’s.
The Beatles… Their manager Brian Epstein went to every record label in England and the band was passed on by every label. That is until producer George Martin with the Parlophone label, a label known primarily for comedy records, decided to take a chance. Martin’s talents meshed with the Beatles’ talents and creativity. The rest is rock history.
@Herbie -wow! what a story! now that’s persistence! awesome! I used to love Bewitched when I was a kid!!
@Rick – great example! thank you for adding that!!
Thank you–keeps my head up. And I need that right now.
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Geeze, the last time I ran into this much saccharine was in the chewing gum aisle at Wal-Mart.
In a way your banal prescriptions are like Tony Robbins Lite, or Hallmark cards extended via banal elaboration. Gosh, us goobers can all make it because a handful of people didn’t immediately ascend the ladder of success. Wow, Forrest do you think this stuff up on your own or are you using a derivative template?
How about mentioning such peculiarities like the segment of Einstein’s brain responsible for abstraction was naturally larger? Or don’t you want the facts to get in the way? Sooner or later, he was bound to succeed because he was enormously gifted and filled a vacuum, not because he persisted soliciting the right people.
Oh yeah, why not include that famous Dutch painter, What’s his name, van Gogh? Oh, I forgot, he lost his ear; that’s right. You’re only citing the positive – those with a Secret as it were – examples. Bless your heart.
And that Bewitched project. Boy oh boy, betcha the world was waiting for that, huh? And, as you insist, you sold all 15,000 copies? Miraculous. You sure there weren’t remainders? Ah, why let the facts get in the way of a beautiful myth?
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The poor guy was constantly being harassed by Edison and his agents, who were known to sabotage his work and attempt to steal his research notes.
The poor guy was constantly being harassed by Edison and his agents, who were known to sabotage his work and attempt to steal his research notes.
The poor guy was constantly being harassed by Edison and his agents, who were known to sabotage his work and attempt to steal his research notes.
The poor guy was constantly being harassed by Edison and his agents, who were known to sabotage his work and attempt to steal his research notes.