Say Won’t Instead Of Can’t
It’s funny how one word, a seemingly inconsequential one, can alter a statement’s entire meaning. Can’t and won’t are such words that, when switched, can give off much different intentions.
Look at the difference in these two sentences:
“I can’t get enough leads to make enough sales.”
“I won’t get enough leads to make enough sales.”The second statement begs the question – Well Why Not? Why won’t you get enough leads to make the sales you want to make? Not motivated enough? Not willing to do what it takes to get those leads? Don’t believe you can really be successful? Plenty of people CAN get enough leads to make enough sales, so it’s not a REAL can’t.
This article from SelfMadeChick explores this idea for not only self-motivation, but also to gauge other people’s intentions.
One Word that Can Change Your Reality and Really Piss Off Other People - [SelfMadeChick]



Comments
Entropia says on October 1st, 2007 at 2:20 pm
One of the many differences between Ability, Responsibility and Will…
http://luispabon.com/entropia/.....027-123256
(in Spanish)
@Stephen says on October 3rd, 2007 at 6:49 am
I do my very best to avoid words (like Can’t) that have negativity-inducing meanings such as: Hope and Try.
“I hope this happens” puts you into a passive mode; be active, make it happen.
“I tried to finish on time” – no you didn’t, there is no try, losers try, either give it your all, ask for help, or admit defeat.