As you were probably told when you were in elementary school, “Just be yourself.” You can be a much happier person once you figure out who you truly are and you learn how to be yourself.
If you are like most people, then you have probably told yourself that things would be better if there were certain changes in your life or changes to yourself. However, you can make those positive changes yourself. Be proactive, and have a more positive outlook about yourself.
1. Don’t aim to please others.
There is a problem if you are never doing what you want to do, yet always doing what everyone else wants to do. Pleasing others can be a nice thing to do, but know where your boundaries are. Instead of always aiming to please others, you should do things for yourself as well every now and then.
2. Don’t worry about how others view you.
Occasionally thinking about how others view you may make you change for the good, but you should not be constantly wondering about what others are thinking. You should change if you want to, and change into what or who you want to change into.
3. Learn more about yourself.
Do you know who you really are? Ever since you were young, you have been conditioned to be one way or another. It may be weird just to spend a day being your spontaneous self, but sometimes it is the only way that you can learn how to be yourself.
4. Appreciate who you are.
No matter how weird you are, appreciate yourself! Each person is unique, and everyone has at least a little weirdness in themselves. Appreciate your weirdness and let it out.
5. Be confident with who you are.
Do you ever doubt yourself? Doubting yourself can be very easy if you are constantly comparing yourself to others and wondering “What if?” Instead of doubting yourself all the time, you should be confident with yourself and who you are. Showing confidence in yourself and your decisions will also show to others that you know what you are doing.
6. Forgive yourself.
Forgive yourself for thinking negatively. Forgive yourself for talking, without thinking twice. Forgive yourself for being rude to your superiors, your friends, your parents, or your siblings. Don’t think negative thoughts about yourself for taking wrong steps or making wrong decisions. This kind of thinking puts your focus on the problem and not the solution. It’s better to say good things about yourself than to say negative things. Always saying positive things about yourself is a sign that you have forgiven yourself.
7. Stop being negative about yourself.
Do you look at everything as a glass half full or a glass half empty? It can be easy to be negative about yourself. When it comes to being happy, it is vital that you learn how to be yourself and to be more positive.
8. Find a hobby that you love.
Everyone has something that they live for or that they love to do. Figure out what you love to do and make a hobby out it. Doing what you love can make you much happier.
9. Learn from your mistakes.
You can really learn more about yourself when you make a mistake. Mistakes in your life do not always need to be seen negatively. Think about what went wrong, learn from it, and move on.
10. Strive for what you want to accomplish.
Being yourself does not have to mean that you have to be stuck in status quot. Aim for what you want to achieve and strive for that accomplishment. You can improve yourself while still remaining true to yourself.
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