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8 Actions You Should Take If You Don’t Want To Ruin Your 30s

Written by Amy Johnson
Amy is a writer who blogs about relationships and lifestyle advice.
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Do you want your 30s to be the same as your 20s? Your 20s are a great time to find yourself while taking risks and making great memories. However, most people want something more comfortable for their 30s. They want to have careers, stability, comfort, and maybe even a family.

Don’t let your 20s pass you by – check out 8 actions you should take now to make sure that your 30s are comfortable and stress-free.

1. Advance your education

Many people in their 20s make the mistake of thinking that having a degree from a good university is enough to land a great job. However, this often isn’t the case and many students struggle to find work when they graduate. Consider joining clubs and taking online courses to create more options for your future.

2. Find your purpose

Many graduates are unsure about what they want to do for the rest of their lives, so they pick a safe career and hope that they will enjoy it enough to stick it out for life. However, lots of people regret this safe decision in their 30s when they have more bills and responsibilities.

You have fewer responsibilities in your 20s, so it is the perfect time to take a risk and find a career that you really love. It may take you years, but when you find something you truly love, you will reap the rewards up until you retire.

3. Work on your personal relationships

After you finish your education, many friends will slip away as you focus on your career and new responsibilities. For your own emotional happiness, do not let this happen to all of your friends or you may feel lonely in your 30s. Some friendships can bring you joy for a whole lifetime, so make sure to stay in touch with people who mean a lot to you.

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4. Start saving for your 30s

Working full-time for the first time ever results in many people in their 20s developing expensive spending habits. Now is the time to kick that habit so that you can focus on saving for your future. As you get older, you will want more security so that you can buy your own home and car. If you struggle to save, think about your retirement – do you want it to be a time to relax, or a time to scrimp and save?

5. Spend time with your parents and your family

As you grow older, so do your parents and family. Don’t regret not spending enough time with them once they are gone. Instead, speak to them as often as you can while they are still here. Taking your loved ones for granted can result in guilt and despair – and no-one needs that stress in their life.

6. Don’t look for a soul mate

Many young people follow the fantasy of having a soul mate, and they spend their 20s looking for a life partner instead of working on their careers and finances. This can slow down your career and make your future less bright. Instead of looking for your life partner, enjoy yourself and remember that you can’t speed up love – it happens when it happens.

7. Have fun

Your 20s may be over, but your happiness isn’t! See your friends, go on trips with your loved ones, laugh, and remember that the money that you earn has no value if you are unhappy. Your life is precious; enjoy it always.

8. Start being healthy

Getting into good routines while you are young will help them to stick for life. Be healthy in as many ways as you can be by exercising and eating healthily. You only get one body – treat it right and it will reward you until you are old!

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